A simple, repeatable process for navigating whatever life puts in front of you.
Life doesn't hand you a manual. But it helps to have a process — something you can return to when things feel overwhelming, confusing, or stuck.
The 6 P's of Personal Growth — Pause, Pinpoint, Process, Plan, Practice, Progress — are that process. Created by counselor and grief specialist Jan Davidson, the 6 P's are an evidence-based framework grounded in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and positive psychology.
They run underneath every module of the EMBRACE Model — giving you a consistent, repeatable path through grief, anxiety, self-doubt, anger, depression, procrastination, and any of life's hills and valleys.
Before you can change anything, you have to stop moving. Pause is the moment you step off the treadmill of reaction and give yourself permission to just… be still.
This isn't passive — it's the most courageous first step. It's grounding yourself in the present moment through breath, awareness, and intention. Techniques like the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise and mindful breathing anchor you here, right now, before anything else.
"You can't navigate the storm if you won't stop running from it."
Most of us know something feels wrong — but we haven't named what. Pinpoint is about getting honest: What am I actually feeling? What triggered this? What's the real issue underneath the surface?
This step uses reflective questioning and cognitive awareness to dig past the obvious. Sometimes what looks like anger is really grief. Sometimes what feels like laziness is really fear. You can't fix what you haven't named.
"Name it to tame it — clarity is the beginning of change."
This is where the real work happens. Processing means letting yourself feel without rushing to fix. It's journaling, talking it out, rewriting old narratives, and giving yourself space to grieve, rage, question, or simply sit with discomfort.
Grounded in CBT and ACT principles, this step helps you challenge unhelpful thought patterns and make room for what's true — even when it's hard. Release letters, thought records, and guided reflection exercises all live here.
"Healing doesn't happen by going around the pain. It happens by going through it."
Not a five-year plan. Not a grand overhaul. Just the next best step. Plan is about turning awareness into intention — identifying one concrete thing you can do differently, and naming a support person who can walk alongside you.
This step draws on motivational interviewing to help you move from contemplation to commitment. It's specific, achievable, and personal. Your plan. Your pace.
"You don't need the whole staircase. Just the next step."
Knowing what to do and doing it are different things. Practice is about repetition — naming the old pattern, rehearsing the new response, and building it into your daily life. Say it out loud. Role-play it. Write it down.
This step is rooted in behavioral activation and positive psychology. Change isn't a single decision — it's a series of small, deliberate choices practiced until they become natural.
"Practice doesn't make perfect. Practice makes progress."
Progress isn't about perfection — it's about looking back and seeing how far you've walked. This step invites you to acknowledge growth, set down what no longer serves you, and carry forward what does.
It includes a one-month check-in, a reflection on what you're setting down and what you're taking with you, and the True Grit Manifesto — a declaration of the strength you've built. Because progress isn't the destination. Progress is proof you were never broken to begin with.
"You were never broken. You were becoming."
The EMBRACE Model has seven modules — Evaluate, Maintain, Balance, Reach-Out/Release, Action, Connect/Commit, Empower — each addressing a different dimension of personal growth.
The 6 P's run through every single module. Think of the EMBRACE modules as the what and the 6 P's as the how. No matter which module you're working through, the 6 P's give you a consistent path: pause, name it, feel it, plan for it, practice it, and track your growth.
This means you're never starting from scratch. Every new challenge uses the same trusted process — just applied to a different part of your life.
The 6 P's aren't abstract theory. Each step maps to validated therapeutic approaches:
The framework was created by Jan Davidson, a counselor, coach, and grief specialist who developed it from her own experience navigating loss — and from decades of professional practice helping others do the same.
The 6 P's are Pause, Pinpoint, Process, Plan, Practice, and Progress — a repeatable framework created by Jan Davidson for navigating grief, anxiety, self-doubt, and other life challenges. They're grounded in CBT, ACT, mindfulness, motivational interviewing, and positive psychology.
The 6 P's run underneath every module of the EMBRACE Model (Evaluate, Maintain, Balance, Reach-Out/Release, Action, Connect/Commit, Empower). Each module applies the 6 P's to a different dimension of growth, giving you a consistent process no matter what challenge you're facing.
Absolutely. The 6 P's are designed to be used solo, with a therapist or coach, or in group settings. The EMBRACE Your Journey Workbook provides guided exercises for each P, and the framework is simple enough to apply to any challenge — from daily stress to major life transitions.
The 6 P's integrate validated approaches from Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness-based practices, motivational interviewing, and positive psychology. Each P maps to research-backed techniques for emotional regulation and personal growth.
Jan Davidson — a counselor, coach, and grief specialist — created the 6 P's as part of the EMBRACE Model. The framework was born from her personal experience navigating loss after her mother's passing, combined with decades of professional practice.
You've read about the 6 P's. Now come live them. In September 2026, Jan Davidson is hosting a full-day retreat in Indianapolis where you'll walk through all six P's with yoga, art therapy, guided journaling, and a room full of people choosing their next brave step.
You'll choose one real challenge in the morning and thread it through Pause, Pinpoint, Process, Plan, Practice, and Progress by the end of the day — with a mini retreat workbook to carry the work forward.
The 6 P's come alive in the EMBRACE Your Journey Workbook — 170 pages of guided exercises, real-life case studies, and tools you'll actually use.